Since last week, i found that there are much things i don't know about myself that is my blind self.
last Monday i have a dinner with my leaders and friends. After end, i went to mamak with my dear buddy. I can't imagine that we can talk for 2hours+ with just a cup of 'TehTarik' . in that 2 hours i found my blind self which actually i found it. When he told me that i am a self protective person i have a shock. For years i never realize that. How self protective i am? For example, when i do something wrong, i won't say the word sorry but just argue. If people tell me my weakness i will just say no, i am not.
However, since that day i found that it is really true. Most of the time we can't see ourselves or know ourselves in absolute. We can only know ourselves through others eyes.Someone who is very close to us may know us better than we know ourselves.However, we need someone to tell us, and to direct our behavior. A person who is direct to us is the true friend of us. They tell us because they care.
So, don't be disappointed or angry with those who direct to us but appreciate them with true heart. If a person who is really care about us will not just let us stay in the past because we must grow in everyday every moment to make our life more fruitful and multiply !

david